Tuesday, January 20, 2009

god's validation

Read this post this morning by Steven Furtick that really resonated with me on a number of levels. I don't think I necessarily crave others' validation, but I feel in some ways like my life has been void of it. So, yeah I do want it.

There have been times in the past few years that I've felt over-looked in some situations; I've yet to understood them.

In the middle of a conversation on a drive home several months ago, Lacey hit me with this question right between the eyes, "Why do you feel the need to prove yourself or be validated by someone else?" Ouch. Talk about hard to take, even though I knew it was truth.

So, I've wrestled with this over and over again in my mind. And I know God is the ultimate answer, but it still haunts me, especially when I'm down.

Furtick says this, "The affirmation of others can make a wonderful supplement to the affirmation of God. But it makes a terrible substitute. "

Be sure and read the rest of the post here.

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Friday, January 02, 2009

2008 Reading List

I love to read. Always have and always will. I consider it essential for my personal development and growth. And it's also therapeutic for me at times. One of my favorite things to do is go sit at Starbucks with a book and highlighter.

This past year I was able to increase the number of books I read by 10 books to read a total of 35 books - 7684 pages.

Here is a listing of all 35.
  1. Unchristian
  2. Hidden in Plain Sight
  3. The Five Dysfunctions of a Team
  4. The Five Temptations of a CEO
  5. Planting Missional Churches
  6. Sex God
  7. Now, Discover Your Strengths
  8. Peppermint Filled Pinatas
  9. Good to Great
  10. Core Values
  11. Uprising
  12. Made to Stick
  13. Too Busy Not to Pray
  14. An Unstoppable Force
  15. Who Moved My Cheese
  16. Why Men Hate Going to Church
  17. 14 Tests All Leaders Must Face
  18. Never Eat Alone
  19. 12 Choices That Lead to Your Success
  20. Next Generation Leader
  21. Wild Goose Chase
  22. The Truth About Managing People
  23. Crazy Love
  24. The Shack
  25. Glocalization
  26. The Last Lecture
  27. The Leadership Challenge
  28. The Divine Conspiracy
  29. Fusion
  30. The Forgotten Ways
  31. Activate
  32. The American Church in Crisis
  33. Pilgrims of Christ on the Muslim Road
  34. Do the Right Thing
  35. The Practice of the Presence of God

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